Applaud the Survivors

One thing I find special about DVAPM is how many survivors come forward, proud and strong as ever. They come forward to be the voices for the victims that are silenced either temporarily or permanently. This is the most beautiful gift of awareness; being able to come together as a strong force of power and vigilance to end this hurt that happens to far too many people. So I want to take the time today to applaud those people who stand up and say 'no' to abuse. You are not alone. You are strong. You are the future. Thank you.

Knowing there are other survivors out there is the biggest sense of security. Knowing there are people out there who understand it on a level so deep and personal can make you feel like you're a part of something bigger. Of course I wish no one would have to go through any form of abuse. But, great things can come out of horrible things. And it is the greatest pleasure knowing that there are so many dedicated, loving, understanding, strong survivors out there supporting each other and taking a stand. It connects us all, whether we know each other or not. And it creates a community of caring people. I think our society needs a community of caring people, don't you?

So I want to take the time now to recognize all of those people. Whether they make themselves known or not, they are all doing their part to say "I will do anything I can to make sure this doesn't happen to someone else." That is so powerful and takes so much strength and selflessness. Every survivor has a unique story of their experience and should all be respected and heard. I truly commend the people out there who raise awareness in any way they can; whether it is by wearing purple, sharing a Facebook status, attending an event, or simply reaching out. Every effort counts. Every effort can lead you to someone who needs you. You can be that one person who helps a friend or family member when they feel as though they have no one. You may never understand that amazing difference it will make to reach out to that person.

Remember the statistics: 1 in 4 women is abused in her lifetime. 1 in 3 teens is abused.
Chances are you know someone who has been abused or knows someone else who has. Reach out. Be their voice. 

As October comes to an end, please don't feel as though your days are numbered in making a difference. You can make a difference every day. Refer to my past posts for ideas of how to raise awareness. You can do your part and stop the hurt.